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‘I’m rich. You’re hot.’ The cold mathematics of sugar daddy dating
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Amirah is a Form 4 girl from a middle-income family. She is a pretty young girl and likes to own branded items but can’t afford the items. Amirah was introduced by her kakak angkat to a middle aged man who looks like her father’s age named Robert. Robert is very generous and brings Amirah shopping and for expensive holidays. In return Amirah has to entertain Robert and fulfill his sexual desires. Robert is a Sugar daddy.
Definition
Sugar daddy is a slang term for a man who offers support (typically financial and material) to a younger companion (typically a female), with the sugar daddy getting favours (typically sexual) in return from the younger companion.
Sugar mama on the other hand is an older woman who spends money on a younger person, (usually a man) in exchange for companionship and/or sexual favors
Sugar babies are young attractive people looking for the finer things in life and they do favours for older men/ women (mostly sexual favours) and in return get expensive gifts, exotic trips and get to experience a luxurious lifestyle.
Sugar dating is on the rise. Sugar daddy sites started popping up on the internet about a decade ago, but there has been a dramatic acceleration over the last three or four years.
Sugar daddies are usually men who have achieved a significant measure of success in their field of work. This means they do not have the leisure to nurture and care for a relationship that younger men might do. As a result being a sugar daddy suits these busy men since it is a relationship where the partners already understand the give and take and no time need be spent on beating around the bush.
A sugar daddy can flaunt their attractive companions openly and publicly. Moreover it feels good to be seen with a young, gorgeous woman who idolizes you and also know that other men envy your good fortune.
Men who take on sugar babies are usually at an age when they need to be reassured that their masculinity has not diminished. Having young and good-looking female companions is a good way to regain confidence in one’s sexual ability. The boost to one’s self-esteem is one of the biggest perks of being a sugar daddy.
Even though it’s fairly normalized these days, sugar daddy culture is still considered fairly scandalous.
Lots of young people like having a sugar daddy/ mama to support their rich lifestyle without having to work hard and long hours.
However it is not advisable to do this as it causes lots of frustrations in the long run.
The life of a sugar baby is often a secretive one, particularly when the sugar daddy is already married and has a family.
In order to keep the details secret, sugar babies are often forced to lie to their near and dear ones. When your family does find out what you actually do for money (which always happen eventually) it will hurt their feelings.
The major disadvantage of dating a sugar daddy is that you will never get a real boyfriend. You are also aware of the fact that this relationship is temporary and can end abruptly when your partner is bored. The chances of getting married to him are very small. Basically, there is no future with him. Sugar babies also are at risk of being infected by sexual transmitted infections such as HIV, syphilis, gonorrheoa and others.
Post by SugarDaddySite.org 2014-09-11
There is no doubt about the fact that a sugar relationship will give you tons of free time. But there is a downside to this too. Most sugar daddies have busy schedules and may squeeze you in whenever they are free.
Lastly, this kind of relationship is wrong moral and meaningless in developing the trustworthy life partner. It is best that you work hard and save money to buy things you want. You will appreciate the things more when you work hard for it. Also learn to live within your means.
References
- Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
- The Pros & Cons of Dating a Sugar Daddy-Post byorg 2014-09-11
- Can You Handle Life as a Sugar Baby? A Closer Look at the Pros and Cons of Being a Sugar Baby
